ngicela imibono yenu kulesisihloko.We live in an era where women are becoming more and more independent however their male counterparts do not treat them with the same level of respect as a single woman its so scarry to get married it appears to a real INSTITUTION.

Hehehe.
Angifundisisanga isihloko se-Thread yakho, bengicaba ukuthi uthiUkuphathaphathana Emshadweni.
Ngavele ngatheleke ngelikhulu isasasa ngicabanga ukuthi unama-Tips asembhedeni.

OT:
I will wait for others to comment.

Dlamini, you are out of order. I dismiss your objection sir hlala phansi

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Dlamini indlebe kayikho ne

umshadweni kumele omunye ahloniphe omunye kodwa owesimame akhumbule ukuthi ubaba nguyena ikhanda lomuzi kumele amthobele, nguyena obeka imithetho endlini maqede umndeni ulandele leyo mithetho. uBaba kumele aphathe umndeni wakho ngenhlonipho ngokubambisana nomkakhe.

umkakhe akhumbule ukuthi uma engena emendweni imithetho yakubo isala ngaphandle okanye isala le kubo kayingeni emzini ngoba mcane umnyango, akukho nyokozala ozolawula emzini okungewona owakhe.

uNobuhle ngicabanga ukuthi ukhuluma ngalezizinkathi esikuzo manje.
Isibonelo imali, kulusikhathi esiphila kuso oDadewethu bahola imali eningi kwesinye isikhathi ukwedlula indoda yakhe (ngokuphindaphindiwe).
Akesithi sekunezingane kimi kungcono uBaba ahlale ekhaya anakekele abantwana, uma uMama eletha imali elingene.
Amasiko anesikhathi sawo, kodwa endlini nguBaba noMama abazenzela imithetho yokuthi bazophilisana kanjani.

ngiyabonga imibono yenu kuloludaba ngiyabona abanye bayasaba ukuphefumula--Nqina mntakama wena nje udinga isiguqo,kona bengikhulumela lesisikhathi samanje samalungelo nezimali,anisho-ke uma owesimame ehola kakhulu kumele noma ubaba engasebenzi --ubani onaba nezwi elidlula elomunye?

okwasekamereni kona ngikuyekela u Patro Khathide kade ngilale enye i tape yakhe ngihleke ngaze ngakhala kodwa yena uyalikhuluma iqiniso

Nobuhle,

umfundisi Mbokazi eseqedi ngalokhu akushilo. Lokhu esamilelwa khona nguMvelinqangi angeke kwashintsha. Ngisho ungaba nemali angangalomhla kodwa indawo yakho njengobambo lowakwakho kumele uyazi. Lokho akusho ukuthi you are being premitive/uneducated/un-civilised/ old-fashioned.

Akumele ukuthi ngoba nakhu ngingasebenzi wena uhola kahle bese ucabanga ukuthi usuyindoda. Iyo lento ebulala eminye yemishado yanamuhla ngoba abanye odadewethu basuke bazikhukhumeze kakhulu. Okungangokuthi keze kululaze abafowethu. Nokuthi nje inkuliso yethu ayifani.

Ngokwami ukubona kodwa, umshado ubakhona ngesimanga sabantu ababili nje kuphela. Yibo futhi abazenzela bona ukuthi umshado wabo uvuthwe kube nezingane nentokozo enentokomalo ekhaya. Lokho kodwa futhi akusho ukuthi angeke kubekhona impambano yemibono. Cha futhi ngisho abafowenu nodadewenu nabazali bakho unazo izinto ongavumelani nazo nabo. Kangakanani ke uma usuhlala nomuntu ongakhulanga naye.

Shono uma ufuna ngenabe. Kuhle ukuthi sibonisane njengabantu abasha.

Ngxabalala

sivuthiwe impela lesisihloko.
kanti futhi nendlela obeke ngayo Mbokazi inohlonze.

Nobuhle dadewethu, ngisho noma ngabe kuthiwa umfazi uhola i-lotto ngenyanga, kumele ayazi indawo yakhe. azithobe. athande indoda yakhe. ngakho konke anakho. kanjalo futhi nendoda yakhe imhloniphe njengomama womuzi wayo kanye nobambo lwayo.

ngqi.

---Ciaa.

Amen

Ngxabalala

cha niyabeka bakwethu ngiyabonga---kumele athobe umfazi does that mean manje ukuthi u submissive kwindoda yakhe?---nokuthi nje uma obaba bamane badlale ngomama ngoba nakhu bethotshelwa----indida lendaba---manje nezinga lama divorce linyukile ama reasons akengiwezwe ukuthi akusathenjwana---ucansi alusashayi khona---ukungavumelani ngezezimali nokukhuliswa kwabantwana----hhhayi kunzima

yebo khona kunzima Nobuhle dadewethu, mina ngithe umangiqala, emshadweni omunye kumele ahloniphe omunye futhi ubaba kumele aphathe umndeni wakhe ngenhlonipho ngokubambisana nomkakhe.

umasingakhuluma udaba lobaba abadlala ngomama mina ngingasho ukuthi lendaba iwela nganhlangothi zombili, kukhona omama abadlala ngobaba nobaba abadlala ngomama kanjalo kodwa indaba ebuhlungu ukuthi kulimala ingane ekugcineni.

Yebo izizathu zakho zikhona:
[/QUOTE]ucansi alusashayi khona---[QUOTE]> ngethemba ukuthi nawe ngokwakho, uma umasihlekisane wakho kade niphaphana isipho sabathandani zonke izinsuku kodwa kuthi ningashada bese kuyashintsha lokho. Lokho kuba nomthelela omubi ngoba omunye wenu kungenzeka aqalaze ngaphandle ebese izinkanuko zomhlaba ziyazenzela. Nanokuthike uma owesimame uthi angaba nengane bese kuthi nemizwa yakhe (hormones) ashintshe, ayi ngoba ethi ulaya ubaba.

[QUOTE]Kuningi nje futhi ukungavumelani ngezezimali[/QUOTE]
Uma abashadikazi sebehlala ndawonye, ngesingami kumele ukuthi kuhlanganyelwe esitsheni esisodwa ngoba omunye wethu uyeke azithole esenkingeni ngoba omunye engashongo ukuthi yena eyakhe imali yenzani. Kumele kubanjiswane kulomkhakha. Izimali ngokwami ezenu nobabili ngokulingana. Ukuthi wena uhola kangcono kunami lokho akusho lutho. Kumele sikhulume njebaphathi bomndeni wethu.

[QUOTE]nokukhuliswa kwabantwana----hhhayi kunzima[/QUOTE]
Lokhu angikuboni kuyinkinga. Uma kubanjiswene kuxoxwa ngekukhuliswa kwezingane nekusasa lazo.
Mhlawumbe kumele wenabe ngalokhu ukuthi kuba yini inkinga.

Ngxabalala

sanibonani


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Sengathatha mina dadewethu. Ngineminyaka eyisikhombisamanje noNdlunkulu. Kodwa sineminyaka eyishumi nesithupha sazana. Sisayishosholoza lendima yomshado.

Empeleni nje ngingakhuthaza bonke abafowethu ukuthi bangachithi isikhathi sabanye osisi. Mabathathe masinyane. Kwazise phela sekwenile ngaphandle. Manje nezitsha akumele zize zingcole hahaha

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Lilililili! siyakubongela Baba ngiyezwa uyazifela ngowakwakho kuhle impela lokho ngethembe naye ukuphathisa okwe golide.Nizwile-ke zinsizwa sithatheni singaze siphelelwe isikhathi.